It’s a repetitious theme, but it’s the daily practice of good habits that produce quality outcomes.
In discussing his book, Bill Gates Snr said (emphasis added):
‘There is one lessonI've learned over the years as a father, lawyer, activist, and citizen which stands above all the others that I hope to convey in these pages. It is simply this: We are all in this life together and we need each other. Showing Up for Life. Eighty percent of success is showing up.’
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Being there. Reliability. Dependability. Knowing you can be counted on.
Why do I show up so much? Well, I suppose there are a lot of reasons.
In the book he expands on why he ‘shows up’ and how it’s influenced his family (emphasis added):
‘I show up because I care about a cause. Or because I care about the person who asked me to show up. And maybe sometimes I show up because it irritates me when other people don’t show up.
‘My obsessive showing up has become a joke among my children. Still, I notice they’ve picked up the habit. And frankly, that’s what happened to me.
‘I started showing up because as far back as I can remember I watched other people I admired showing up.’
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Values are caught. After watching the actions of others, he developed the habit of ‘showing up’. Which in turn has influenced his own family.
He went on to say:
‘My parents, on a scale of one to ten, were nines at showing up. My dad was somebody people knew they could count on. If there was money to be raised for a good cause, my dad was always willing to call on people and ask them to give a few dollars. He had led the effort to have a new park built in town. I read about it in an old newspaper long after he died. I had not known about it, but it didn’t surprise me.
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